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crack head boyfriend

 
 
deb60
 
Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:33 pm
I have been living on and off with a crack head boyfriend for 7 years. he left last week i do not want to take him back again, im afriad i will soften.
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Rockhead
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:35 pm
@deb60,
you still got all your stuff?


good on you.
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deb60
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:37 pm
i have some stuff left, i feel so stupid, another round and i will be busted
Rockhead
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:43 pm
@deb60,
keep thinking about that when he wants back in...

good luck to you.
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deb60
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:45 pm
thank you
Rockhead
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:48 pm
@deb60,
welcome.

and welcome to a2k.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:49 pm
there is no advice anyone can give you that will make you change your mind.

There is something about that kind of drama and life that you enjoy, cater to and find comfortable.
Since you are the only common denominator in that relationship that you can control, you need to change YOU. Not the boy friend, not the drug, not the house , not the money.. You.

You can leave him..... sure..... but you will attract another just like him.

Sometimes, some people need to hit bottom with their relationships in the same way addicts have to hit bottom with their drugs before they see what they are doing and are willing to change it. Before it feels real i guess.

I hope this isnt you.

gosh.. I could preach on this subject for a while. I have BEEN that crack head.

I have been the crack heads girlfriend too.

Now? I dont attract those kinds of people. Its alllll about who you are. Seriously. And it isnt an easy lesson.
Seed
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 07:58 pm
@shewolfnm,
I wish I knew you when I was young and single.... /sigh
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deb60
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 08:00 pm
@shewolfnm,
i have had some like advise in the past, i feel like i am just about at the bottom. i am fine as long as i do not see him. i don't want to melt again, its mostly I can't stand the thought of him being with someone else even know i know what she is getting
Seed
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 08:02 pm
@deb60,
Why would you want it? It's like seeing a tv and knowing that it is bust and only plays things in pig latin without sub titles. It's useless and provides you with no entertainment.
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gungasnake
 
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Reply Mon 22 Mar, 2010 08:03 pm
@deb60,
I've read that crack cocaine affects the same part of the brain as sex, only 40 times more powerfully. I don't have any picture of anybody ever recovering from anything like that.
deb60
 
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Reply Tue 23 Mar, 2010 07:57 pm
@gungasnake,
He stoped me on the drive today looking for his mail i told him there was none. maybe i should have told him i returned to sender, i returned to apt. and got sick to my stomach, I need to be strong please help me, I do not want to repeat history, I thought he left the area, but i guess not, Im fine as long as i do not see him. help
deb60
 
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Reply Tue 23 Mar, 2010 07:58 pm
@deb60,
he goes on binges just about every 3 months is this normal for a ch
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