@engineer,
My real objection started when you had to drag in your simplistic stereotypes about "Arab" (or now Middle-Eastern) culture into a discussion that clearly happened in American context.
There was no reason why you had to do this, there are certainly many American men who have had feelings of jealousy. The question is--
why did you have to drag a completely different culture that you have no deep understanding of into the discussion?
An intelligent discussion on the differences between American and Middle-Eastern culture (or should I say the superiority of American culture over Middle-Eastern culture), we would need to dive into many different, often complex issues. You would want to hear the voices of the women you mention
alongside the voices of the women who strongly defend their cultural identity.
These simplistic off-hand characterizations of "Arab culture" that pass judgement on a culture without any understanding really bother me.
I bet you have never had any significant contact with "Arab" culture.
Why didn't you make this generalization about Jews (after all the same things could be said about Jewish culture)?
The answer is simple-- everyone feels that safe attacking the Arabs this days since defaming Black and Jewish people has grown out of style. Making this kind of prejudicial statement about Jews would have made you (rightly) feel uncomfortable.