@mismi,
Quote:agree with Green Witch and Linkat...better safe than sorry - no matter how precious the pooch.
By not having the dog around the baby and with you when you are taking care of the baby you are more not less likely to have a problem with your pet in the future that why not!
You what the dog to bond with the baby not view it as a strange and annoying addition to the household.
See below
http://www.foxvalleypets.org/cats/default.asp?details=26&page=398
MYTH: “My neighbor told me my dog might attack my baby because of hunting or protective instincts.”
Actually, a dog's instincts seem to help it understand that a baby is helpless and non-threatening. Most dog owners report that their dogs put up with a lot more from a very young child than from an older child or adult.
Unless your dog has a history of biting people and other animals, or is trained to attack or fight, aggression is usually no problem. But remember " a dog is still a dog. Even if you've prepared carefully, the new baby will still disrupt your dog's routine. Early meetings should be carefully monitored " but don't let your anxiety get in the way! Your dog may interpret your nervousness to mean the baby is a threat.
A well-trained, properly cared-for dog will quickly become a fast friend " and often guardian " of a new baby. We've heard dozens of stories about dogs of all ages, genders, and breeds sleeping next to the baby's crib. Some new parents even tell us the dog will start barking if they don't get out of bed fast enough when the baby cries!
MYTH: “I've always heard that cats can suffocate babies.”
Cats are natural “cuddlers” when they sleep, and many prefer to curl up on top of people or snuggle up next to a person's head or neck. If you want to keep your cat out of the crib, either install a screen door on the nursery or use crib netting.
Cats also display the interesting behavior of “sniffing breath” " putting their noses up to the nose and mouth of another cat (or human), possibly to investigate what the other has recently eaten. This probably gave birth to the myth of cats “sucking the breath” from babies.
Recent reports suggest that many of the cases where cats supposedly “suffocated” babies were most likely SIDS " sudden infant death syndrome, or “crib death.”
A severe allergic reaction can cause an infant to stop breathing. If your baby shows signs of allergy to a pet, your child is probably allergic to many items, including some foods. Your baby will be much happier and safer " and probably grow up healthier " if you identify these allergies early. Pets should not sleep with allergic children.
MYTH: “A lot of people have told me their pets got jealous and behaved badly when their first child was born.”
Jealousy is a human emotion. Companion animals interpret changes in their usual routine as threats. As a result, they may show “anxious” behavior, become sullen or withdrawn, or be more edgy or aggressive.
Making a smooth, gradual transition to the new baby can prevent most major problems. Avoid anthropomorphism " giving your pet human thoughts, motives, or emotions. Your pet is not “jealous” or “getting even” " your pet is trying to tell you something!
Punishing a dog or cat for a change in behavior after the baby arrives will only make things worse. Look for a way to reassure your pet instead. Physical punishment only encourages aggression in your pet and sets a poor example of human-animal interaction for your child.
“Synchronized attention” is the key to a happy home. It simply means that when baby gets your attention, so does Fido or Fluffy. Our sources even recommend walking the dog at the same time baby goes out in the stroller, or saddling the little one up in the Snugli when it's time for Bowser's morning romp.
Likewise, when the baby is asleep, divert your attention to the million other things that need to get done, rather than setting out a lot of “quality time” with a pet. Dogs especially will take this to mean that they only get your attention when the baby isn't around. Not only will you find a dog or cat underfoot every time you put the baby down for a nap, you may be setting up competition for your time. Synchronized attention teaches both baby and pet how to share the limelight happily.