@failures art,
Quote:Further, I'd say many women probably feel that they've been better respected by homosexual men than many heterosexual men.
Not if she is heterosexual and has made the decision to marry a man thinking he is also heterosexual and finds out later that he isn't.
I find this whole conversation about covering up who you are or have been to the person you are marrying, deplorable and disgusting.
You say to the girl, 'I'm bi, or I've had homosexual liaisons with people in the past, but I'm more interested in women and you specifically now,' and give her the option of making an informed decision for her future.
Why would you start a life-long relationship that's supposed to be based on mutual trust with any skeletons in your closet?
Besides the fact that it shows very little faith in this person you are supposed to love.
And spendius - are you or are you not a Christian? I have to say that I was under the impression that you were a person of faith (I thought Catholic). Are you now saying that you're just anti-institutionalized Atheism instead of pro-Christianity?
If so, that's sort of the same thing you accuse the people on the Evolution thread of being/doing- being anti-Christianity without being able to recount the pros of institutionalized Atheism.
And finally - best of luck to you and your broom Pepijn Sweep. I don't think you should be afraid to tell him about your loose and drunken sojourns into heterosexual sex. If he loves you - he'll understand.