@argome321,
Quote:I can not speak for others. I think we pick and choose according to our own understanding and perceived needs and abilities.
And education.
Western values are indeed religion-based for some part, but not from only the Judeo-Christian track, IMO. Pre-christian Europe had lists of 'virtues' which defined how a real man should behave ('vir'=man in latin), more aggressive than judeo-christian morality. Paul tried to replace them with Christian virtues but it did not work. These are still around, i believe. Eg Kipling poem "if you can do this and that... you will be a man my son".
The primary Roman virtues were:
Auctoritas — "Spiritual Authority" — The sense of one's social standing, built up through experience, Pietas, and Industria. This was considered to be essential for a magistrate's ability to enforce law and order.
Comitas — "Humour" — Ease of manner, courtesy, openness, and friendliness.
Constantia — "Perseverance" — Military stamina, as well as general mental and physical endurance in the face of hardship.
Clementia — "Mercy" — Mildness and gentleness, and the ability to set aside previous transgressions.
Dignitas — "Dignity" — A sense of self-worth, personal self-respect & self-esteem.
Disciplina — "Discipline" — Considered essential to military excellence; also connotes adherence to the legal system, and upholding the duties of citizenship.
Firmitas — "Tenacity" — Strength of mind, and the ability to stick to one's purpose at hand without wavering.
Frugalitas — "Frugality" — Economy and simplicity in lifestyle, without being miserly.
Gravitas — "Gravity" — A sense of the importance of the matter at hand; responsibility, and being earnest.
Honestas — "Respectability" — The image that one presents as a respectable member of society.
Humanitas — "Humanity" — Refinement, civilization, learning, and generally being cultured.
Industria — "Industriousness" — Hard work.
Iustitia — "Justice" — Sense of moral worth to an action; personified by the goddess Iustitia, the Roman counterpart to the Greek Themis.
Pietas — "Dutifulness" — More than religious piety; a respect for the natural order: socially, politically, and religiously. Includes ideas of patriotism, fulfillment of pious obligation to the gods, and honoring other human beings, especially in terms of the patron and client relationship, considered essential to an orderly society.
Prudentia — "Prudence" — Foresight, wisdom, and personal discretion.
Salubritas — "Wholesomeness" — General health and cleanliness, personified in the deity Salus.
Severitas — "Sternness" — Self-control, considered to be tied directly to the virtue of gravitas.
Veritas — "Truthfulness" — Honesty in dealing with others, personified by the goddess Veritas. Veritas, being the mother of Virtus, was considered the root of all virtue; a person living an honest life was bound to be virtuous.
Virtus — "Manliness" — Valor, excellence, courage, character, and worth. 'Vir' is Latin for "man".