@ossobuco,
I don't know whether I have said this on this particular thread. In response to your request....
....what my label "atheist" means to me is
not about a futile existential debate with believers. It has significance .....
1. rationalizing my attendance at religious ceremonies such as
weddings and funerals "for the sake of others". I put up with the mumbo-jumbo so as to not "rock the boat".
and
2. as a some-time educator of children, coming to terms with the potentially pernicious conditioning which I feel is detrimental to the progress of my charges in becoming equipped for "the modern world".
Obviously there are no simplistic "answers" to what I see as at best a socially conditioned palliative manifesting in its multiple forms over most of humanity. Nor do I think that so-called "atheistic" totalitarian regimes are any better than theocracies. They merely substitute terrestrial absolutism for celestial absolutism.