@spendius,
Quote:We are trying to bring in sex with the brakes off aren't we? Is anybody here not trying to bring in sex with the brakes off?
Calm down. All the atheists on this site are just as tight-ass as the religious. Every time someone comes here with a question about love, sex, adultery, whatever, they yell at him/her that sex, love and evidently adultery are bad bad bad...
I like to read my wife's women magazines, especially when they talk about sex. Now, some of these mags are not just about fashion and make up. Marie Claire for instance was once a feminist mag and tries to maintain that tradition a bit, in the midst a flow of ads about how to please men with the perfect figure... The point is that each and every article about sex in them is normative. It's about how the following things are bad bad bad: masturbation, ******* outside of marriage, sodomy, SM, etc etc... Ad nauseam. Of course it is not couched in moral terms but more in terms of physical and mental health. In today's French women's magazines, the role of the priest has been taken over by the shrink and the doctor. But the message remains the same: don't you dare try something unusual, beyond classic monogamy.
So you can rest assured that atheism, feminism, and the likes will not lead to licence, at least not in the US and not in France and I would suspect not in western civilization as a whole. Everybody is scared of freedom (perhaps rightly so? I don't know) and just too happy to keep with the old puritanic order...