@reasoning logic,
Your question is a very good one, and I shall answer as openly as I can.
Some of our personality is coded in our genes, some from our mother, some from our father, the rest is entirely developed through the psychological impacts from the environment around us versus our own free will. We choose much in our life, however our view and perception of the choices available are moulded heavily by our surroundings, the teachings we are brought up with etc.
My father was an alcoholic and a womaniser, my mother was raised Roman Catholic, and although she raised us to be respectful of God and the bible, we were not baptised into faith. My closeness to my mother gave me more inclination to understand her past and her religious history. She stopped believing after a number of incidents and unanswered questions. I guess that was the environment that moulded my requirement to find answers for not only her questions but also for my own. I believe that knowledge and not blind belief is what empowers us.
I am by nature curious. I have an incessant need to understand things, and being brought up in a western culture, I have access to many more choices than if per say raised in afghanistan, where choices are less apparent. I started reading the bible at 12 years old. I decided to worship God at 15, I have not studied the koran to the same degree that I have the bible, I have a basic knowledge and believe the teachings are very similar to the bible. I believe that I would have an interest in spiritual matters due to my inquisitive nature wherever I was raised however as to what denomination or how deeply I would be into my spiritual development I cannot be sure.
My language was chosen for me by circumstance, and heterosexuality is generally something that I see as natures course for me, I have merely never had an inclination otherwise, I guess it was officially decided when I married my wife 5 years 3 months and 29 days ago.
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