My thoughts as well - my husband can be a bit extreme. I told him I wouldn't let that stop me as we have the flu here. I didn't go into how people die from our regular seasonal flu as I don't know what he would do with that information. Actually I am able to reason somewhat with him, it is his b-i-l that seems to be against.
With kids in tow, I would probably do the tourist sit on a beach in Cancun type of thing. I don't care if it is touristy as long as they keep the colodas and ritas coming.
Looks like the only place that is safe is some parts of Africa - but there I am likely to get ebola.