@blackwidow,
I think it was you bw that insulted us men by thinking you might dig gold without a pick and shovel and by relying solely on what is known discreetly as body fascism.
Good luck to you though. I suggest you view some Barbara Stanwyk movies.
Is the Fife you are in the one just up the road from here? Perhaps you are unsure just what it is that attracts eligible, presumably mature, £500,000ers to a lady such as you describe. (It's sounds better in ££s). And such as don't meet with too strong a sense of disapproval in your esteemed estimation.
Most of them, if they are not whatsit, have done the sort that flank the winners in at decent race meetings or who provide endstops in the presentation ceremonies. Some of them have the videos too. Airline hostesses, second string actresses, low county types of the better sort, conference centre logistics co-ordinators, boss's secretaries and what not who read the first sentence of Pride and Prejudice, closed their reading career on the instant and sat meditating future plans. That sentence is not famous for no reason. It is magnificent art. Like a bolt of lightning. As true today as it was then and has been in all climes since records were chiselled into rocks.
The pedals hardly seem worth turning any longer. They are flagging. Jaded, Mentally. Some of them physically as well.
Germaine Greer is pretty good at explaining how to land one on the bank and not let it get back in.
Frank Harris advised, and I will recommend him, that if things are not up to your expectations it is you who to look at first.