Yoyo, I think most of us think you have a peculiar obsession, something that really has nothing to do with love, but instead has to do with need to manipulate, to possess. Most of us want you to seek counselling.
The only advice you seem to want to hear is how to capture this fellow despite his expressed lack of interest. This does have an air of stalking about it.
Have you ever been in love before? Does it always go this way? The infatuation phase is equivalent to the first day of many thousands of days of a relationship, which has to do with two people communicating and caring over and over. It's a process, not anything like capturing a pet to love.