@Foxfyre,
An update:
Dys took me to the surgeon's office for the pre-op this morning, me out of my mind since I just figured out I missed a Medicaid form deadline. I have a weird sort of medicaid in that they don't pay for any medical treatment; what they pay for is my monthly fairly small medicare B payment, not that I don't appreciate that. But I could be screwed and have a waiting period for medicare B, which I'll find out shortly.
So I told him I was a fool, and he said "as long as you don't think I'm one".
I have all the stuff for the medicaid forms, I'd just flubbed with the football.
Anyway, we've rescheduled the surgery to August 25th and in the meantime all the fancy machine pre-op measurements are done... and if the medicaid situation takes longer, we'll reschedule again.
Meantime, a stress reprieve.