We had a rocky beginning, because she felt she had to compete with me for my brother's affection. I never saw it that way, but such is the insecurity feelings people endure. I had a similar insecurity when I met my wife. As the years ran like grains of sand through the hourglass (I made that up
) we learned to love as one loves a dear relative. She is already greatly missed. Thanks, sister in law for the loving memories.