@bathsheba,
Quote:I do think a2k tends to be cliqueish in some respects. Although there are many great, supportive folks here....sometimes one feels a bit left out and ignored.
I think that is a fault of the perceptive vacuum of online conversation. You can't see us, and we can't see you, so if you make a remark which everyone reading accepts, you may not know that it has been noticed and "approved of" because you don't get the eye contact signal, the slight nod, which would signal you in face-t0-face conversation.
Sometimes i have gotten a lonely feeling while posting here (or elsewhere), but then i notice that people responded to me much later than when i had originally posted, or that by the time stamp, they were posting in another thread while i was making my post. People here whom i've met in person, and whom i like sometimes seem to ignore me . . . but this is a much more tenuous form of contact, and i know those people have nothing against me. There is an optimum time of day to communicate with the 'Mer'cans, which is late morning and early afternoon, USA time. For those from Oz, it's about 16 hours later (they're a day ahead of us most of the time).
I hope you will stick around, because i've often enjoyed your posts, even if i haven't taken the time to say as much.