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Another girl who got canned...also by Wal-Mart

 
 
OGIONIK
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:07 pm
@Foxfyre,
Foxfyre wrote:

One of my two kids was naturally way too passive and non assertive to the kid's detriment. But through self-knowledge and determination to correct an emotional handicap, this person now heads a large technical division and is successful beyond wildest dreams. And is happy.

The other kid had anger issues like you wouldn't believe and stayed in trouble a lot and incurred retaliation from peers and displeasure from authorities through emotional outbursts and inappropriate demonstrations of anger. This person also recognized destructive unhelpful behavior and took steps to correct it and now is sought out for cooperative projects and out earns us all. Out earns most people in the country actually. And is happy.

Nobody wants to be addicted to nicotine or alcohol or be an asshole. But it happens. But the worst addicts can get off the cigarettes; the most seemingly hopeless drunk can get clean and sober, and the worst asshole can learn to be a better person. None of us have to accept bad traits as normal or natural or permanent. If something about us can be changed, we can change it if we decide we don't like the way we are.


i call it pure, unadulterated, un-diluted, 100% WILLPOWER
Green Witch
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:08 pm
@OGIONIK,
Oh come on, OG. Here's a picture of the bride punching out her maid of honor for stepping on her train:

http://pro.corbis.com/images/42-17697888.jpg?size=572&uid={2f759682-f64e-4a46-a14f-81c9ac26330a}
OGIONIK
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:13 pm
@Green Witch,
roflmfao.
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dirrtydozen22
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:29 pm
@Green Witch,
i ain't getting married either. staying w/ the SAME person ur whole life gets boring. I'd rather be a bachelorette and experiment w/ variety lol. Maybe one night stands...on a dinner to a restaurnat.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:32 pm
@Green Witch,
Green Witch wrote:

My inner Yenta is propelling me forward to formally introduce OG & DD and start planning the wedding.



or at least outline the child support
Foxfyre
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:34 pm
@OGIONIK,
Will power--I prefer to call it motivation--is certainly part of it and nobody intentionally changes for the better without it. The first step is acknowledging the truth about ourselves and deciding that the way we are is no longer acceptable. But sometimes it takes more than just deciding. Sometimes it requires being willing to acknowledge that we can't always will ourselves to change what we need to change. Sometimes we have to seek out and accept appropriate help from appropriate sources to begin what can be a difficult, even painful process. But it is almost always do-able. And when it is, it is always worth it.

(I apologize if that sounds preachy. I speak as one who has been there, done that, and trashed the T-shirt already.)
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dirrtydozen22
 
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Reply Wed 11 Feb, 2009 04:40 pm
I feel pretty
All so pretty
I feel pretty
and witty
and proud...

Can't wait to see that movie again. (Anger Management, 2003(
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OGIONIK
 
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Reply Thu 12 Feb, 2009 12:10 am
@shewolfnm,
shewolfnm wrote:

Green Witch wrote:

My inner Yenta is propelling me forward to formally introduce OG & DD and start planning the wedding.



or at least outline the child support


lol. **** u guys. shits just hilarious. but truly funny in some odd way.

= )

OGIONIK
 
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Reply Thu 12 Feb, 2009 12:13 am
@OGIONIK,
and DEE DEE

you not helpign with ur one night stand talk.

hah. =P
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Thu 12 Feb, 2009 01:33 pm
@NickFun,
Oh jeeze, me too! That was one of the biggest symptoms. I was angry, snapped at the smallest thing...it was crazy.

But now I 'm ok. Smile
dirrtydozen22
 
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Reply Fri 13 Feb, 2009 03:39 am
@Bella Dea,
Still angry, still snapped at the smallest thing, and it's still crazy.

Damnit, idk how much more regrets I'ma have in this friggin lifetime!
Green Witch
 
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Reply Fri 13 Feb, 2009 07:33 am
@dirrtydozen22,
Since there could a chemical reason for your anger I suggest you listen to Nick and Bella and get your thyroid checked.

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OGIONIK
 
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Reply Fri 13 Feb, 2009 12:33 pm
@dirrtydozen22,
does ur name refer to the band lead by eminem?
dirrtydozen22
 
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Reply Fri 13 Feb, 2009 01:11 pm
@OGIONIK,
haha D12. hell yeah. how did u kno? that band is friggin awesome!
talk72000
 
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Reply Sun 15 Feb, 2009 01:44 pm
There is such a thing as Tourotte Syndrome. I worked with a guy like that as I was a newbie so they hooked me to this bum. Nobody wanted to work with him. He was technically capable but he had anger issues and had fights with everyone. I am not sure if there is cure for it.
Merry Andrew
 
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Reply Sun 15 Feb, 2009 04:08 pm
@talk72000,
I believe it's Tourette Syndrome, Talk. To the best of my knowledge, there isn't any "cure" for it, but its worst symptoms are controllable by meds. One of the major symptoms of Tourettes, though, isn't anger so much as uncontrollable cursing. A sufferer will swear a blue streak even though he/she isn't actually angry at all. They can't help that.
dyslexia
 
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Reply Sun 15 Feb, 2009 06:23 pm
there is zero connection between Tourette Syndrome and anger.
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OGIONIK
 
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Reply Sun 15 Feb, 2009 10:45 pm
@dirrtydozen22,
dirrtydozen22 wrote:

haha D12. hell yeah. how did u kno? that band is friggin awesome!


cuz im sraight gangsta Very Happy

jk. im a big music buff, and rap and metal are my top genres.

plus, eminem has some of the illest rhymes ive ever heard.

his first album? classic!

"im not ready to live, its to scary to die, id rather be carried inside a cemetery and buried alive"

wtf? thats ill as ****!

too bad his lost his anger, his new **** sucks so far that ive heard.

"ill chop a fella to mozzarella quicka than a helicopter propella"
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talk72000
 
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Reply Mon 16 Feb, 2009 05:51 am
@Merry Andrew,
Thanks, I mostly post from memory so there is a lot of misspellings and slightly altered facts. Anyway this guy was angry all the time and admitted he had Tourette Syndrome.
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