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Is she shy or scared of me?

 
 
young7
 
Reply Tue 10 Feb, 2009 05:18 pm
It's been one and a half years, and I know that I REALLY should have gotten over this. However, it is not the case. There is a girl at my college who seems shy, but honestly I don't know. She would look at me until I have noticed her and she would quickly turned her head away or looks down or away and pretends like I didn't catch her then turns back to look at me, LOL who wouldn't when you(her) do it every time we crossed path. Funny thing is that this is still going on, which obviously makes no sense and it have gotten me to the point where I just have to research online for answers, yes I freak out trying to talk to her. She would look at me on and off, but she would not smile. When I first talked to her it was probably the weirdest start-off; however, she insist that I continue talking to her even after we got to her class, she invited me in to sit with her. During the conversation she didn't say much or laugh, but smile with open gestures to me although I felt the urge to leave, her body language was insisting that I stayed but after a while I left. Then one week later, as I was going to the student building, I happened to see her and before I got close, she got up with a terrified expression and took off. Although she took off terrified to see me, about a few weeks later she walked in the student building and stared at me, and didn't looked scared at all, in fact she went to sat in front of me; however she wasn't facing me. We've talked a few times after wards, but it just seems to make the situation more awkward, not to mention the fact that now she tries to avoid me by fiddling with her phone as she walks pass me. Although she ignores me, whenever I don't know that she is around, she is always glancing at me and turns her head quickly whenever I catch her looking at me.

I need a good observation!
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Mame
 
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Reply Tue 10 Feb, 2009 05:22 pm
Mixed messages all over the place and over such a long period of time. You don't need that, do you? Why are you still interested?

If you're seriously interested, ask her out and then decide from her answer what to do... continue peeking at each other, ending the silliness, or moving forward with her.

Whatever happens, something should! This is a no-go!
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sullyfish6
 
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Reply Tue 10 Feb, 2009 06:14 pm
How old are you two?
Is she foreign?
What do you talk about with her?

She seems skittish. Or she just wants to look at you and not have a relationship.

Maybe you remind her of someone.

Ask a female friend to find out what she wants.

This is too weird.

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NickFun
 
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Reply Tue 10 Feb, 2009 10:24 pm
A young Japanese girl used to always smile and walk away whenever she saw me. She would not even look me in the eye. I thought she was afraid of me and I didn't even thin of asking her out. One day she came up to me with a box of candy and a card saying "Nick, this is for you". We went out for two years.

Ask her out man!
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