@dyslexia,
Okay. I used to be afraid to go to sleep at night, too. Often, I slept in the recliner my sister sent. It gave me a different kind of pain than the bed.
Glad the rest is working without external help, but maybe it's time to back off on the Flowmax. I know, I know. They are going to jump on me with both collective feet on the subject of self diagnosis. So, let them.