@cicerone imposter,
So if I am not on Ignore what about the question you were asked about the country of your origins.
I know all about changes in language. But there are hierarchies of words. Some are more important than others.
What do you think "sweetheart" means? The idea that a bloke is a sweetheart is so utterly ridiculous that I'm amazed at myself for writing about it.
The essential feature of marriage is the vow. In this matter the vow means nothing.
Another essential feature is that one of the parties is a sweetheart and a chap can't do it. The Church has always cast a benevolent eye upon lesbians so long as it didn't last or get too popular.
Where's the honeymoon with no honey?
Was there no Romantic period in Japanese culture?