Yep. He says, lets have the neighbors over for a cookout. I'll do the cooking.
She hears, you call the neighbors, vacuum, dust, kick the dirty socks under the bed, go to the market and get all the stuff, set the table, get the meat ready to go on the grill, prepare the beverages, make all the side dishes and plan something for dessert, and clean up after the party.
She says, let's go to a movie.
He hears, turn off the football game, get up out of your favorite chair, shower, shave, dress up, clean out the car and go get gas, and be pleasant during the sappiest chick flick of the year.