@High Seas,
Once, long time ago, I was flying from Philly to Albany with a newproject engineer. THis kid was straight from his surveying internships and was going to be working as a new rod man on a field crew already up there.
We were flying into Albany and it was terribly windy. The plane was bouncing on approach and we were buffeted into a "crab" Everyone was white knuckling when this guy looks at me and says in a real loud voice
"Oh God were gonna Crash, and this is my first ride on a plane"
Some people started crying and , after e landed, we got stepped aside on deplaning to get a really nice but firm lecture about the inadviseability of that phrase and what rules we were breaking . The attendants and the pilot were carrying most of the reprimand and all I could do was tell em that it was the kids first flight and he went to school less than 200 miles from his home and they always drove to the Jersey shore so this was, in essence, his first airplane flight, and Ill take full responsibility should there be any fines or hearings. We were just let go with the lecture and a really stern look from everybody> I could sympathise with teh airline but I could also see the kids view since he had never experienced flying "into ALbany" and that this kind of **** happens a lot up at that airport.
Ever since then, and at project meetings in which this (now hes a company vice president) "kid" was present and I was the principql, I would, sometimes (not always cause it loses effectiveness if you can constantly be counted on to say the same old tired remark), See whether there was anything he wanted to "blurt out" in the passion of the moment.
Usually laughter ensued, (I think I remem ber that part correctly)