@sozobe,
Oh, I'm handling it in the most sensible, mature way possible--pretending I never saw it, of course...
I can't decide what to do, I'm still mulling. It's just such an
issue with us, her not getting that I need SOME parts of my life that she's not involved in, that it makes me think just ignoring it is better. Maybe she'll take the hint. But really I'll probably end up following the instructions in that how-to article so that she's in a group that doesn't see that much of my stuff. I feel pretty bad just ignoring the stupid request...
How about you, no friend requests from your mom yet? I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!