and you appear in hers - she hasn't reached out yet. maybe she has similar concerns
Actually, that's one thing I'm curious about. I've had a few people show up in that section ("people you may know") who I'm certain didn't show up because we have mutual friends (Phoenix, for example -- I am not friends with any A2K'ers on my real-name FB account). I have full privacy settings and don't show up in a search. So I'm wondering if my mom did something (by searching for me maybe), to appear in "people you may know," rather than appearing there automatically because we have mutual friends.
Plus my mom's account currently has no friends, which is part of why I think she joined to friend me, specifically (though she hasn't yet -- she may have joined thinking that she'd be able to see me if she was a member).
At any rate, I've made some progress on how to customize things, thanks engineer. Not all the way there yet but getting there.