Re: Serious advice needed RE: affair
messyone wrote:What should I do? Do I stop all contact with my friend as a way of respecting him or should I be honest with us both by reminding him of how my heart really feels?
My head is spinning, for all I know, this new relationship may never work out, and then where will I be?
Should? A completely overused word loaded with pressure.
Regardless of how your heart feels, the guy is married. So it's best to release yourself from his grip. Sure, he's saddened by the prospect of your liaison ending.
Doesn't what he's doing make you angry, ever? Sure, he was supportive and loving when you were extremely vulnerable.
Set yourself free, girl. You'll ache and cry for a long, long, time, but you know what? eventually you won't and then you'll come out on the other side--relieved and living your life.