Tue 3 Jun, 2008 12:02 pm - You're right, you haven't missed anything. He is not leaving his family. There is no hope for a full future with him unless I'm willing to settle for bits and pieces of time here and... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 11:53 am - I am really saddened and hurt. I am no angel in any sense. I should never have started this. My feelings allowed me to ignore the true facts of our relationship.
We have always just accepted... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 11:49 am - [quote="JPB"]Ok -- then restricting yourself to options 1 and 2 -- all or nothing with one or the other man -- which one makes you want to get up in the morning and with hope for that day... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 11:39 am - My past as defined by me: totally destroyed and hurt by the man I trusted to be my best friend and father to my children.
I knew the affair man wouldn't be forever since he had no plans to... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 11:22 am - OK, #1 is scary, there is always the chance of rejection and who wants to go through that again.
#2, it's safe, fun, and makes me feel secure.
#3 wouldn't be fair to either of the... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 11:08 am - My inner voice is telling me that I love him in a deep sense, for who he is as an individual as well as who he is with me. I don't want to let him go but I realize that our relationship will... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 11:03 am - I'm also not deniying that I shouldn't have gotten myself into this situation in the first place. This is what it is and now I'm at a loss of direction. (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 10:58 am - The tricky thing is that I fell in love with him and he says the same thing. Although he wants what's best for me, he is still heartbroken over the loss of us. But due to his sense of... (view)
Tue 3 Jun, 2008 10:35 am - Yes, I realize that this is a very sensitive topic for many people, however, I have found myself in a difficult situation that I need sound, sincere advice on.
For those of you who feel angry... (view)
