hawkeye10 wrote:Maybe what is unforgivable is not standing up for what you (the spouse who has been wronged) believe in, and for what you believe to be in your childrens best interests.....that everything else is just conversation.
I personally feel that way.
Betraying yourself (or a child) is double the damage of what anyone can do to us.
Forgiveness and what to do after forgiving are two seperate decisions; in my opinion.
I often wonder if those who stay are only delaying facing the truth and true forgiveness. It's not for me to judge for others, but I do wonder that. A socially acceptable form of denial in many circles.
