I do our washing. She TAKES our washing and ruins it. I have asked that we do our own thing. We pay £200 a month to a woman who's living in a council house, paying £400 rent a month, getting free heating, free hot water etc etc. I prefer to do my own thing, I keep our room clean and tidy, I prefer not to be at home, I buy our own food, I cook our own food, I wash up, I keep the living room tidy, bathroom, anywhere I can.
She accused me of not doing anything at the bungalow where we lived before and she accuses me of not doing anything here, along with my BF. Her other son lives here for free, doesn't do ANYTHING, smashes around, breaks stuff, everything and is allowed to get away with it.
My boyfriend and I paid for the £600 bed we sleep in.
I don't do anything to her and she's using me as a battering ram. I couldn't give a **** about it, but it's hurting my boy. She doesn't give a **** that her dog attacked me, if we had young children and the dog attacked them, they could lose an arm, have permanent major scarring on their face, but she doesn't even ask me how my Drs appointment went.
I don't CARE. I don't WANT to live here. My own mother complains and complains, slags everyone off and doesn't sort anything out for herself, she just complains, which is why I had to leave. So don't even try to say it's me, that no-one will put up with me, my friends are all in college still, we are planning to share a house when they finish.
This person is illegally getting gas for their heating, illegally living in a council house when she earns a **** load of money.
I'm not complaining about her, I'm asking if I should tell her how much she is hurting her SON. I dont want to be here, which is why I plan to get out asap.
God, everyone on this site is so judgemental. I don't even know why I'm on here, but I thought you might be able to advise me whether I should confront her. I still don't seem to have an answer on this.
"Cheap" hotel? Do they exist?!
Quote:Or, hold your tongue for 90 days and appreciate this person is putting a roof over your head.
I'm not doing anything!! I would appreciate it if I was actually doing something to bother her, but I'm not. I'm doing a hell of a lot more than the rest of the people in this house, I contribute to the rent and I do the chores. What the **** else can I do?
She's just ******* fucked up. I was hoping someone might suggest why she might act liek this, for example "My mother in law hated me because she never made her son happy, but I could" she's nver had time for my BF, he was bullied as a child and she didn't step in, she doesn't care about him, he's openly said he loves me and now he doesn't need her, this could be it, but no, everyone just goes for the "It's obvbiously your fault". I was hoping someone might say "You should confront her privately, just say....etc etc"
What the **** is wrong with you all? Every thread it's blaming the person asking the question!!! Go out, read! Very few of you just give a good supportive answer, you just slag off. It's your fault, YOU are doing this, YOU must do this, YOU are in the wrong....