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My second date in 4 years...

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farmerman
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 07:45 am
HEy, all that means is that you got it. We always send Italians in to do the beach work, not the stuff that requires class. Youre "Out there" kid.
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martybarker
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 10:24 am
Chai wrote:
martybarker wrote:
Let's just say that Squinney's warning was well warranted


So....are you complaining?
Laughing

Let's just say that he was moving a little faster than I was willing to for a first date.
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martybarker
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 10:25 am
Noddy24 wrote:
Marty--

The path to sophisticated womanhood is fraught with frogs as well as members of the Charming family.

One frog down and an infinite number of Prince Charmings to go.


Why do I keep encountering the frogs?
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Chai
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 10:32 am
So like, did you let him get to 2nd base?

Third?



I would have been like Cher in Moonstruck....


"Oh my God, I'm going burn in hell, I don't care, I don't care about anything. Take me to your bed"
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 10:42 am
sozobe wrote:
Very good doggie!


That's what she said.
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martybarker
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 12:31 pm
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I would have been like Cher in Moonstruck....


"Oh my God, I'm going burn in hell, I don't care, I don't care about anything. Take me to your bed"


The thought crossed my mind for a second. But I'm looking for a substantial relationship. You know where trust and respect makes the rest just so much better.
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Francis
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 12:38 pm
martybarker wrote:
Why do I keep encountering the frogs?


I wasn't there...
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 02:30 pm
Marty--

One woman's frog....

Hang in there.
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martybarker
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 02:33 pm
OK, hangin in there but feeling very discouraged.
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Francis
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 02:37 pm
No reason for such, some they your Prince will come...
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 03:35 pm
Marty--

Do you want a romance based like a 1/2 hour sitcom--with eleven minutes devoted to commercials?

At least aim for a season's worth of romantic adventures (and some of them will be misadventures).
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 03:45 pm
Well, the Romans move fast. Laughing
Obviously, you were attracted to him, otherwise you had not gone out
with him, so just go with the flow, marty.

You can't possibly expect a substantial relationship already, you have to squeeze a few lemons in order to appreciate the thirst-quenching lemonade.
Just have fun and enjoy!
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Chai
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 03:50 pm
martybarker wrote:
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I would have been like Cher in Moonstruck....


"Oh my God, I'm going burn in hell, I don't care, I don't care about anything. Take me to your bed"


The thought crossed my mind for a second. But I'm looking for a substantial relationship. You know where trust and respect makes the rest just so much better.



Well, I'll be burning in hell because of my first date with Wally then....about 20 years ago.

So, trust, respect and a fabulous time in the sack are mutually exclusive?

I'll admit, I've always had a fantasy about an Italian, preferably Milanese, and I having a mutally satisfying burning in hell experience.

Life's short, you're a grownup. No need to jump at the start looking for "the one"....you need a few practice runs.

I promise, I won't scold you for being a fast package.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 03:59 pm
Marty opted for Go Slow....do we still respect her in the morning?
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dadpad
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 04:22 pm
Noddy24 wrote:
Marty opted for Go Slow....do we still respect her in the morning?



so..... mumpads away at a seminar for 4 days....?
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 04:38 pm
Dadpad--

You are a dirty old opportunist.
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martybarker
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 04:42 pm
I realize that I should go with the flow and take my time in finding the one. I'm just not accustomed to full on public displays of affection(That's putting it mildly) I've never been with such an aggressive guy on a first date. I'd like to at least have an idea of what the guy is about before I feel comfortable enough going further.
I guess I didn't feel an immediate sexual attraction to this man but thought that maybe getting to know him and moving a little slower could have progressed to that level.
Am I being a prude??
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 04:52 pm
Marty--

I was Single Again in the 70's--and the world had changed since the '50's.

Take your Roman's amorous advances as a compliment and mark him down to practice.

The next time you're treated like a Dear Familiar Bedmate you'll know exactly what to do.

Practice.
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martybarker
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 04:55 pm
I don't know, maybe I'm carrying on something deeper from my marriage. I just feel that there was such a deep lack of respect from the person I felt closest to. I just left last night thinking that this guy must have had such little respect for me to think that I was willing to move so fast.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Mon 25 Feb, 2008 04:57 pm
Marty--

Some nice girls do--and some don't.

Which sort of nice girl do you want to be?

You're in charge.
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