I haven't posted on this one for a while because things pretty much worked them selves out. Some of you had been reading about what I am/was dealing with at my old job and I am moving on to a new one.
Maybe I should start a new thread for this one.....but my husband decided to leave me to go back and be with his daughter. One of my last thoughts were that he would do this after my grandfather passed and he did. He happened to leave Tuesday morning which was the same day I was having problems with my employer (thread name--how can i deal with an unreasonable boss) . I was not ready to tell anyone yet. Of course my family know and I was ok with it....but now I am falling apart slowly.
I start a whole new fresh life on Monday with a new job and all, but I can't hide how I feel when I come home to an empty house with just my grandmother now. She just lost her husband and I don't want to hurt her by her seeing my upset.
He did not go back to the ex as she called me and started crap out she won't let him see his daughter so he is not going to be with her since he left me. I hung up on her, I can careless and its not my business.
I am dealing with the loss of my grandfather (who was more than a father to me), the leaving of my husband for good=divorce, and starting a new job after I just got out of that abusive working relationship with him.
I won't have the $$ just yet for a counselor and my benefits don't start until 2 months from now. I feel so lost with out the two most important men in my life. One left me because he was suffering too much and I understand but the other left because he wanted to be with his daughter all the time. I do not have children so I do understand but not fully because I think he could of worked it out here to have both worlds. All I know is that I did all I could in this marriage.
Whats the best way to start moving forward? Even though its too early, I get nervous thinking about when I do start to date (much later on) that I won't find someone without kids....because I don't want to go through that again. No offense to anyone with kids, I love them and want a few myself but at 27, its hard to find men without kids.
Thanks for all you help on my other post.....it helped me a lot. I know you guys will be able to tell me what I can do.