Noddy24 wrote:Hellokittygirl--
Good that he had it out with his Ex.
Blinders are one fashion accessory any woman can do without--particularly when you consider the merit of "Once bitten, twice shy."
Short leash? You can't control his behavior. You can only observe it and control your own reactions.
You sound calmer. You have a lot on your plate right now.
When I say short leash, he is not going to be making any visits to see his daughter unless I am going with him. I also made it clear that I don't want him to call her while I am not home because she can make stuff up or he could very well tell her things to keep her calm since she is nuts.
I am calmer today after having a fairly good weekend and she has cut her crap.
If you only knew whats on my plate, you would be surprised that I am not heavily medicated. I have a dying grandfather (which I am on pins and needles because I think it could be any day now), the husband situation and I have a bad situation at work that I haven't even got into. So no matter where I am, there is some type of stress. Since its just my boss and I in an office, its like being in a bad marriage for 8 hours!!!
I use to blame myself for my husband being a little distant because my frustration at work sometimes comes home with me because I can't shake the man sometimes.
I will save you all that drama until later. I am sure you will see my post at some point about work.
I appreciate every ones kind words and advice.