Quote:She prefaced that statement by saying that she will always be faithful, and love me; but she has urges to wild things because that is who she is. Whether it's parasailing, doing drugs, photo shoots, etc; she thinks doing these things has nothing to do with me; and i do not need to know every detail.
I am not sure what she has in mind, but i feel somewhat better in the short term.
Awwwww come on Mochit, get real here.....this does involve YOU and has all to do with YOU, she is YOUR wife......and this is disrespectful.
If my husband come home and told me he'd do these things without consulting me first, my first reaction would be to tell him if he had the balls enough to do it.... to go for it, I DARE YA! Then before he had the chance to do so, I'd also explain to him how I felt about it, the consequences of his actions, and what it would result in. Such as everything he owned being packed up lock-stock-n-barrell and him being sent on his disrespectful way.
Mochit, we all have a urge to do wild things, trust me...I DO. But I also stop myself before I go too far, because first off... I'm married and I take that into consideration, along with what his feelings, and what consequences my actions may result in to him, and my children.
If I didn't, I promise I wouldn't be sitting here in this forum at the moment because of boredom, I'd be elsewhere having a big time! But I control my urges.......out of respect for my husband, my children and most of all...myself!