CalamityJane wrote:Mame wrote:
Tico, this should be between you and Roxxx, or Roxxx and LE, and no one else here has any need or right to make judgemental statements about what she did or didn't do, say, or have as a posting name. She's old enough, and sober enough now, to be aware of all her actions and is accountable only to herself and the people involved. The rest of us need to stay out of it.
Mame, in essence I agree with you, however, Roxxxanne made it all
our business when she opened this thread. She could have send Tico
a PM telling him what she thought of his post, and/or him personally. Instead she has created a big scene here openly, for everyone to comment.
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Roxxxanne, I have met you! You are in person very charming, witty
and lovely, however, we also have seen another side of you here on a2k,
and in order for you to redeem yourself, you first have to mend what's
broken. I do understand your situation, and you're all sober now, and
have changed, but you still need to take responsibility for your entire
life, it doesn't start the day you stopped drinking.
Seven months of sobriety is nothing. I am just beginning to work on my character defects. One of which is creating drama, especially where the internet is concerned. When someone acts out his hatred of women while hiding behind an image of Arnold Schwarzenegger, I have a hard time imagining that entity as a real person.
I really should let this go but I am rather having fun continuing the drama and rubbing the little "man's" nose in it. I am not yet the Dali Lama.
Oh I have an awesome sponsor but we are still on the fourth step. My progress is going well, I need to finish the steps though within my first year so I can take on Sponsees. I have also began speaking before AA groups, I am doing quite well but again, I still can't help but push people's buttons on the internet, especially those who are intentionally attempting to inflict emotional damage. In my case, they would be best to find some other outlet to act out upon.
