@fresco,
One might argue, some do, that next Thursday is just another day in the life of Joe Egg, that architecture is a pile of stones, wives are tax breaks, (being polite), educational qualifications, membership of any organisation including the nation state and much else are all forms of wish fulfilment on the part of those who succumb to "word magic". And, unlike, eternal truth, easily proved to be so.
Picking and choosing being nothing but aspects of snobbery.