@Roberta,
Debs, sweets, Roberta has been clear about this for days, weeks, more than a month, weeks more... it about kills her to swallow.
No to snap at you, but hey, suss!
It is also not likely over in a day or two, would that we all want it to be.
Lets get on the game card here and follow Roberta's actual travail. She is mostly alone and we all love her. Let's at least follow what is actually happening, never mind me or any one else sending candy, virtual or otherwise.
OK, that's my pov, what I would want. As in cut.. but I'm not Roberta.
Roberta, get in there and argue with me, bubbe..