Thanks for everyone's replies!
I'm sorry it's taken so long to get back to everyone about what happened, but I think you will all be pleased to hear that I got out!
I left him for good...even though it's still hard to avoid him and he's still trying to put the squeeze on me, I stuck by my decision and I've never been happier!! Now I'm waiting til autumn when I can move far away!
Thanks again for all the advice everyone!
Eliane.