DrewDad wrote: said nothing about racism, per se. I was discussing the emotional import of certain words.
Yes, words can cause emotional reaction. Lots of things cause emotional reactions in people. The idiocy of congress and the white house and the courts at times cause me to feel anger and disgust. Not only words upset folks. A word in itself can't cause damage to me or anyone else. On the other hand, some of the laws made in congress or the rulings made by a court CAN and often DO cause me damage, in many real ways.
I'd worry less about what slurs offensive people toss around than I would about what becomes the law of the land. Tax increases and over-regulation do harm me. Carelessness about letting terrorists into the country may harm me. But words, unless they are the legal words of the law restricting my rights and taking my money, don't do any damage beyond perhaps upsetting folks. And folks will get upset by lots of things, many much worse than words.
Right now, we are dangerously close to losing our freedom of speech rights due precisely to the fuss about the N-word. Somehow now murder is worse if it's preceeded by the N-word since that makes it a hate crime. Hey, murder makes someone DEAD. It doesn't make one iota of difference if he's dead out of hate or some other thought in the killer's head, such as desire for his wallet.
This nation is now going to judge and punish MOTIVES? THOUGHTS? BELIEFS? Hey, stay out of our heads! It's only what folks DO with their emotions that matters. Prejudice and hate are not pretty, and we all wish it would go away forever, but given human nature Utopia aint gonna happen. All we can punish is what folks DO to others. We can never be sure of what someone thinks anyway, since the courts have no mind-reading machine. But we can know what they DID, and that's all we have a right to punish.
All the laws against certain words won't change thoughts. And it's THOUGHTS that lead to actions. To punish thoughts of any sort is wrong, and ridiculously unconstitutional. It's only ACTIONS that are within the realm of law. And actions are what matter in the end.
Sometimes, perhaps, cussing someone out and saying mean things in the heat of the moment can PREVENT bad actions, since it lets off the steam that is building inside. Without this release valve, worse things than words can happen... in a moment of anger many people have maimed or killed others. I'd much rather have them call me names instead.
Just something to think about next time you get upset over mere words.