Anal Sex

who'd have thought that the he man hunter was so sensitive?

Of course I'm a fan, but I can't help but laugh when I think things are funny. I've always been funny that way CJ, so please don't take it personally. I honestly would have laughed if it were anyone else.



If I offended you, I'm truly sorry! I certainly didn't mean too. I laugh at my friends all the time and they know it's just me being me ;-)

Ask Bear, I laugh at him all the time

That seems perfectly sensible.

and here I thought you were laughing with me. I'm crushed.

and I'm pretty sure cj was implying you're a fan of anal sex.

I am laugh with you, Bear, but can't I do both at the same time?

Oh, he was talking about being a fan of anal sex

Then I need to change my reponse to CJ. No, I am not a fan of this particular subject. I just like to watch sometimes

I wasn't implying anything... just wondering...

You don't like pornography but you like to watch anal sex? okey dokey

No, actually, I'm only joking. I don't like to watch, to be totally honest with you, but I think you already know that about me ;-)

60 "girls" is not a big enough sample.

I've had sex with about 250

amateur...

congratulations. hope your collection of STDs is not equally impressive (for lack of a better word).

Im totally healthy.....

I'm 24, Male, Hetrosexual. I've had anal sex with two female partners in my short but adventurous sex life. I have had a female partner who enjoyed giving me anal stimulation. I have been a student health advocate and educator for several years, and I have talked candidly with others about this same subject who have had or were interested anal sex.

One thing about this thread is that anal sex is not limited to a penis in an anus. The use of hands and the mouth is actually more common in anally active couples.

Most people who inquired about anal sex are female. Most are concerned about discomfort. Some girls don't want to do it, but want to please their boyfriends. Some girls want to do it, but are affraid of the cultural stigma that comes with it. Another group which is oddly common in the office is young girls who use anal sex as a means of birth control, saying that they don't want to get pills because their parents would now they are sexually active.

The men that come into the office are usually homosexuals. While I think that many men are open to the idea of anal stimulation, seeking out information on the subject seems very risky to them.

As for my own experience, I can only say that it was very enjoyable. As for if it was more enjoyable than vaginal sex, I will throw out an apple and an orange. Sorry. One of the partners I have had anal sex with is my current girlfriend. We don't do it very often, but it mostly is because of the extra work involved prior. Anal Sex requires a plan, and sexual sessions are usually more driven by passion, so stopping and setting up and be a mood killer.

The people I have talked with who have had similar sexual experiences have frequently brought up the notion that anal sex is disrespectful of women. Even those in the group that agreed with this idea did not think that anal sex was any more disrespectful than more common male female interactions such as infidelity, or calling a woman a whore.

Overall, I feel that the largest difference between vaginal and anal sex is the social baggage that comes with them. Didn't Mark Twain say that we are the only animal to blush? Shame as it would show it face in the sexual arena is all too common in individuals.

for women, it is the fear that their anal exploits will label them as a "whore," while men fear that other men will suspect them to be homosexual. Social factors seems to drive minds of both sides.

OH, I almost forgot! The Sicko! There is a breed of man that does desire to humiliate women and specifically believes that the best way to do this is anal sex. This person while in my experience is the minority, is what is most commonly framed in our mind when we think about hetrosexual anal sex.

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P.s - more thoughts later... I'm tired.
P.p.s - BTW, this information I put up is specifically for the college age bracket (17-25). I have little to no experience with any other age group and their workings with anal sex. I do have one story, but later when I'm rested.

yeah... It's kind of like that...

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whats a little head between friends huh??