ehBeth wrote:Chai wrote:Attractive to the point where the man turns heads? Or where one would take such note of it as to comment on it?
Yup - and definitely yes at the Christmas Party (alcohol really helps to get people talking about that sort of thing).
You got me thinking about an ex-boyfriend, one I had from, oh, about 21 to 28 or 29.
I'm not a bad looking person...and I was really, if I may say so, pretty good looking in my younger years. However, as you can guess, I was not the type of person that put up with a lot of nonsense flirting. I was more the type a guy noticed after (or if) he got tired of talking to bubble heads. Suited me fine because that showed he had a brain.
This BF happened to be really good looking. The type women would slow down in their cars and take a picture of while he was cruising on his bike. Of course, after being together awhile, his looks really didn't mean that much to me.
I took him to a Christmas party where I was working, and where he didn't know anyone. The people I worked with and knew well just said hello when introduced, no big deal, we looked like we belonged together. But.....this one man who worked there (was pretty handsome himself), who DIDN'T know me well, and only saw my no nonsense demeanor, actually did a double take when he asked me where my boyfriend was, and I pointed him out across the room.
THAT's your boyfriend?!!!??
me: yeah, why...do you know him?
him: No...but....he's just really handsome and...(realized just then what he was saying to me and shut up)
me: and you don't know why a handsome guy like that would be with me, right?
him....oh, noooo....that's not it......uh....
ok, so he'd probably had a drink or two...but in vino veritas.