Re: We've Broken Up And He Needs Me More Than Ever
mcho2k wrote:Problem is, he's become more and more dependent on me. Calling me, trying to get me a cell phone so that he can call me anytime (which I refused as politely as possible), trying to spend every spare second he has with me and no one else, and acting incredibly childish when I go out with friends (which I haven't done practically since we've been together).
Why are you continuing to take his calls?
Okay, listen....
Do not have any more contact with him!
No phone calls.
No visits.
No anything.
If you keep "helping him", you are only fanning the flames of his drama. His drama, not yours.
Some people you cannot help.
All they do is take and take and still want more.
You need to do what's best for you.
You're starting to describe (or maybe I'm just really getting that you have described all along) a classic controlling abuser. Please take this seriously.
