Baseballchic--
Making plans for college is an excellent idea. College will offer opportunities for improving both your mind and your social life.
Quote:but i dont know what im supposed to do about the way i get treated.....it doesnt seem i can do anything......even when i do try to talk it over with one of them.....both of them just tell me that i need to relax because its not all about me.....the problem is....its never about me....not even on a special event like my birthday.....im getting more and more frustrated by all this everyday......and im clueless on what to do
You can't change other people, but you can change yourself.
You can either decide to accept being treated like an Inconvenient Adoring Doormat because you are an Inconvenient Adoring Doormat or you can decide that these guys are being absolutely truthful: that "it" is not all about you and in their worlds "it" will never be about you.
I don't recommend settling for life as an Inconvenient, Adoring Doormat.
You can't replace a father, but you can love your father and look for a man who treats you as a person of worth.
Ideally you could snap your fingers and your Video Playing Swain would turn into Prince Charming. If he doesn't want to be Prince Charming--or even consider your wishes and dreams and needs, then you decide whether you're a Girl with a Frog or a Woman Looking Elsewhere for a Prince.