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Why aren’t they all just considered ridiculous?

 
 
Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 06:51 am
snood- It is very strange about anonymity. The people that I have met, in person, from A2K are some of those on the site whom I most value.

It is true though, that on an internet forum, one may tend to be a bit more brittle than face to face with another person. I do think though, that for some of us, the snappishness is taken to extremes. I really see very few instances where it is appropriate to jump all over a person because of what he has written.

I think, that when a member has seen something that he deems egregious, although not serious enough to report to the mods as counter to the TOS, the response can be strongly worded, but not couched as a personal attack.

IMO, all personal attacks do is elicit defensiveness, and the point of the message by the attacker is obscured.
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xingu
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:03 am
Snood

You can't seem to distinguish between expressing opinions on a religious thread on the internet and speaking to a group of strangers about religion when religion is not the topic of their conversation. If this discussion on religion were held face to face I would be saying the same thing. Nothing changes because religion would be the topic of choice among the participants.

I would not bring up my opinions about religion if the topic of conversation was about food or some other subject unrelated to religion. I would not do that on A2K.

So I don't think anyone here would change what they say, face to face or on the internet, provided they were in an environment in which it was agreed that religion was the topic and different viewpoint are to be expected.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:22 am
snood wrote:
Would it constrain or change your words if you had to look someone in the eyes and say 'your imaginary god/friend is hogwash, just like the tooth fairy and Santa'?

As you can easily guess, I ask because I don't think it would be as easy in person - and I think if that's true, then it begs other questions about what the ridiculing person is doing, and why.


No, it would not constrain me, but at the same time, i do not discuss the subject of religion publicly, unless it is forced upon me. I have made the point again and again that this site is a special circumstance, a venue to which people come to discuss such matters.

In real life, no i would not barge into someone's imaginary friend superstition classroom to point out to them that that is what it is. By the same token, if some joker shows up on my doorstep or accosts me in public (and both of those circumstances are sufficiently common that i speak from a long experience), they have created the situation, and needn't whine if they don't like being told that their imaginary friend superstition is a superstition.

As for ridicule, if your feelings are hurt, that's your problem and your fault. The terms of service don't say that i cannot heap ridicule on any idea i find here--and you yourself have definite political opinions which have lead you to ridicule others. You only make a distinction when the topic is religion, and i suspect that is because you take personal offense.

As you've pointed out yourself, you make an exception to your own principle when it comes to "satanism," and you even refuse to understand the distinction which Dok always made between his view of satanism and the depraved image of it upon which you intend to insist.

This is definitely a case of whose ox was gored.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:25 am
snood wrote:
Is your feeling that it's right to ridicule religions at all limited by the setting? I mean to say, I think there are things that are acceptable in a cyber forum that might seem otherwise face-to-face.

Yes, it is my feeling that the setting is a constraint. No, I don't think the important distinction is between the online-setting and the face-to-face-setting per se. Rather, it's that there are very few places where people (a) discuss religion and (b) don't necessarily believe in the religion they discuss. In places like these, polemicizing against religion is common behavior. It doesn't matter if these places are dedicated corners within online communities or philosophy seminars in real-life colleges.

As a casual reader of the "spirituality and religion" forum and your posts in it, my general impression is that you tend to err in the direction of confusing the spirituality and religion forum with a church. This is not a church, where everyone who shows up either believes in the religion, or respects its rituals, or at least goes through the movements of pretending to respect them. This is a public forum for people interested in religion -- even if the interest is of the same nature as a driver's interest in an ugly car crash he passes.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:37 am
Re: Why aren't they all just considered ridiculous?
georgeob1 wrote:
Given the near universality of religion in human culture and the remarkable commonality of the moral values articulated by the most prominent religions, noted above, one could make a serious case suggesting that one who summarily rejected the possibility of enduring value in any of them was himself a bit out of tune with the reality of human experience.

This is not to suggest there are no contradictions in these faiths or the absence of worse contradictions in the manner in which those in power have used religion for their own purposes. Instead I am considering the evident human appetite for the spiritual values common to these religions and the likelihood that there may be some transcendent meaning involved.


In the first place, one of the aspects of universality in the three Abrahamic religions which is both express in scripture and implicit in their histories is that it is a holy act to slaughter the infidel. We are basically dealing with an argumentum ad populum, in both its senses. Argumentum ad populum can have both the mere numerical meaning (argumentum ad numerum) that if a lot of people believe it, it must be true. It can, and often in this particular argument, also partakes of that other aspect of argumentum ad populum, that intelligent, or influential or powerful people believe it, so it must be so.

None of those are good reasons to slaughter others for being allegedly infidel or heretical. As Anatole France put it, because fifty million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing. Your entire first paragraph here is embarrassingly tautological: because being in step would entail acceptance of organized religion, those who don't accept organized religion are out of step. Well . . . Duh-uh ! ! !

That there appears to be a human appetite for spiritualism in some form is not evidence that there is some transcendent meaning involved. Tens of millions of people, perhaps hundreds of millions of people, in North America want to believe that there is a high probability that they will win big in any one of the dozens of legal lotteries available to them. That does not alter that the odds against them winning are tens of millions to one--that does not alter that they are foolishly wasting their money if the basis to which one refers is mathematical probability.

You have made no case for any validity for religion, you have simply outlined the case for recognizing that people frequently feel better deluding themselves about their insignificance in the cosmos. Your entire appeal here is to several statements which vary in detail but not in substance of the principle of argumentum ad populum.
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George
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:42 am
My case is somewhat the inverse of Joe Nation's. I have occasional
conversations about religion with those who do not believe in God but
know that I do. I can't think of any instance when someone directed
animosity or ridicule towards me personally. Of course these are generally
people I know in a wider context and there's a measure of pre-existing
mutual respect.

And, of course, they knew me to be crazy, eccentric, and ridiculous long
before they knew my beliefs.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:47 am
Setanta wrote:
In real life, no i would not barge into someone's imaginary friend superstition classroom to point out to them that that is what it is. By the same token, if some joker shows up on my doorstep or accosts me in public (and both of those circumstances are sufficiently common that i speak from a long experience), they have created the situation, and needn't whine if they don't like being told that their imaginary friend superstition is a superstition.


Setanta- Your post illustrates exactly to what I am referring. The way that the phrases in the above paragraph, IMO are calculated to elicit knee-jerk emotional gut reactions.

Now what happens if you remove what I consider the knee jerk phrases in the paragraphs? Here is how it could be reworded, saying basically the same thing, but, IMO, not geared to eliciting strong emotional reactions from the reader.



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In real life, no i would not barge into someone's religion class to point out to them that I believe that I think that their beliefs are superstition. By the same token, if someone shows up on my doorstep or accosts me in public (and both of those circumstances are sufficiently common that i speak from a long experience), they have created the situation, and needn't whine if they don't like being told that their beliefs, IMO, are superstition.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:47 am
George wrote:
My case is somewhat the inverse of Joe Nation's. I have occasional
conversations about religion with those who do not believe in God but
know that I do. I can't think of any instance when someone directed
animosity or ridicule towards me personally. Of course these are generally
people I know in a wider context and there's a measure of pre-existing
mutual respect.

And, of course, they knew me to be crazy, eccentric, and ridiculous long
before they knew my beliefs.


Or, alternatively, they came to the conclusion that you are crazy, eccentric and ridiculous upon learning your beliefs.

There are two big distinctions in operation here. One is, tediously i repeat it, this is an online forum. The second is a possible distinction, contingent upon the answer to the question of whether or not you buttonhole people to discuss religion with them. If you do not, and someone else brings the topic up with you face-to-face, then two circumstances apply in my never humble opinion. The first is that given normal social conventions, they must react to you with a certain amount of courtesy and respect if they are inquiring after your beliefs. The other is that if their remarks on religion are unsolicited, they have no right to expect that their remarks will be taken seriously. If they have foisted their company on a stranger in order to rant about religion, any nasty remark they get is warranted by their ill-mannered behavior.

So . . . tell us George . . . are you an evangelist?
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 07:52 am
Those are distinctions without differences, Phoenix, i consider your post to have been pointless.

There is no knee-jerk on my part, the only jerking knees would be among those who object to having their imaginary friend superstition characterized as an imaginary friend superstition. They can avoid that unpleasantness very easily by not accosting me to discuss their superstitions with me. I don't go looking for fights to pick about religion, but if such are forced on me, i will use every weapon at my disposal, and i will hope to draw blood.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 08:05 am
Setanta- I am not discussing how you would relate to someone who accosted you and started yammering you about their religion. I would probably behave in a similar fashion as you, if they were really persistent. Most of the time though, the conversation is ended by me giving the party or parties in question a dirty look, saying sharply, "I'm not interested", and walking away.

What I am discussing is how phrases are couched on A2K. I think that referring to an "imaginary friend superstition" is belittling to another member, and is not calculated to elicit meaningful debate.


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I don't go looking for fights to pick about religion, but if such are forced on me, i will use every weapon at my disposal, and i will hope to draw blood.


Why? Who gives a ****? If the person starting the discussion is a robot like believer, having a discussion with him to attempt to change him, IMO, is just a form of mental masturbation. I would not even waste my time with someone like that.

If the person is intelligent and sincere, not antagonizing the person will allow him to absorb more of your thoughts than if he is forced into a defensive mode. The point is, what exactly do you want to get out of the conversation? Conversion? Understanding? Some kind of satisfaction?
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George
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 08:05 am
Setanta wrote:
George wrote:
...And, of course, they knew me to be crazy, eccentric, and ridiculous long
before they knew my beliefs.


Or, alternatively, they came to the conclusion that you are crazy, eccentric and ridiculous upon learning your beliefs...


Always a possibility.

Setanta wrote:
...So . . . tell us George . . . are you an evangelist?

Let me tell you about the wondrous effects of daily exercise!
[slam!]
Ouch.
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neologist
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 08:53 am
Re: Why aren't they all just considered ridiculous?
Setanta wrote:
In the first place, one of the aspects of universality in the three Abrahamic religions which is both express in scripture and implicit in their histories is that it is a holy act to slaughter the infidel. . .
I can understand why you would believe this, viewing the religions as a more or less distant observer, and particularly because the clergymen of Christendom have earned their bread by perpetrating it.

In reality, the perception is a straw man.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 09:44 am
Re: Why aren't they all just considered ridiculous?
neologist wrote:
Setanta wrote:
In the first place, one of the aspects of universality in the three Abrahamic religions which is both express in scripture and implicit in their histories is that it is a holy act to slaughter the infidel. . .
I can understand why you would believe this, viewing the religions as a more or less distant observer, and particularly because the clergymen of Christendom have earned their bread by perpetrating it.

In reality, the perception is a straw man.


No, it is not. Both the Jews and the Christians accept the scriptural authority of what is known as the "Old Testament," in which your boy God calls upon his adherents to slaughter men, women and children. Your mental gymnastics to attempt to claim that the text does not mean what it patently says, or that it is now somehow void in those sections the content of which is embarrassing to a religion which now bills itself as loving, are entertaining, but not convincing.

I know of at least one instance in which the Quran, referring to the faithful being attacked by infidels, authorizes the slaughter, with "extreme prejudice," of said putative enemies.

Don't accuse me of erecting a strawman because you have your own favorite interpretations, and choose to acknowledge the force and authority of some passages of scripture, but not others.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 09:57 am
Phoenix32890 wrote:
What I am discussing is how phrases are couched on A2K. I think that referring to an "imaginary friend superstition" is belittling to another member, and is not calculated to elicit meaningful debate.[/b]

As soon as you say that referring to someone's imaginary friend superstition as an imaginary friend superstition is belittling, you have placed yourself squarely in the camp of those who perceive any criticism of what they believe as a personal attack. Certainly referring to an imaginary friend superstition as an imaginary friend superstition is not intended to elicit "meaningful debate"--there is no meaningful debate possible in such a circumstance unless one accepts a priori that the imaginary friend in fact does exist, and is therefore not imaginary--in which case there would be no point in debate. Do you think through the implications of what you are writing before you post it?

Anyone whose beliefs cannot stand up to ridicule adheres to beliefs which are not worth holding. If the ridicule does not phase them, then their "faith" at least has the value of unassailable conviction. People who piss and moan about personal attack and claim that criticism of their imaginary friend superstition belittles them cannot have a very well-founded belief, at least if they insist that no one can question it, criticize it or laugh it to scorn.

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I don't go looking for fights to pick about religion, but if such are forced on me, i will use every weapon at my disposal, and i will hope to draw blood.


Why? Who gives a ****? If the person starting the discussion is a robot like believer, having a discussion with him to attempt to change him, IMO, is just a form of mental masturbation. I would not even waste my time with someone like that.


Nor do i--so if they force their horseshit on me, i strike back with sufficient mental force to convince them that it were unwise to continue to attempt to torment me with their delusions. Keep in mind that i refer to a discussion which i neither sought nor intend to suffer.

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If the person is intelligent and sincere, not antagonizing the person will allow him to absorb more of your thoughts than if he is forced into a defensive mode. The point is, what exactly do you want to get out of the conversation? Conversion? Understanding? Some kind of satisfaction?


You're attempting to twist what i've written. I have carefully pointed out that i don't discuss religion in public, and that if is forced upon me, i consider the gloves to be off. If someone is genuinely intelligent and sincere, and they want to discuss religion with me, i will tell them no, and they will desist. If the persist when i've told them no, then i have no reason to consider the intelligent, and what you might be pleased to call their "sincerity" i would consider the unwavering adherence to their goofy creed to a point at which they cannot accept no for an answer. As i don't intend to have such a conversation in the first place, i don't intend to get anything out of it.

I intend to be left alone.

I have not at any time said anything other than that in real life, i won't discuss religion with people. Keep your high school sneers to yourself.
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neologist
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 10:04 am
Re: Why aren't they all just considered ridiculous?
Setanta wrote:
neologist wrote:
Setanta wrote:
In the first place, one of the aspects of universality in the three Abrahamic religions which is both express in scripture and implicit in their histories is that it is a holy act to slaughter the infidel. . .
I can understand why you would believe this, viewing the religions as a more or less distant observer, and particularly because the clergymen of Christendom have earned their bread by perpetrating it.

In reality, the perception is a straw man.


No, it is not. Both the Jews and the Christians accept the scriptural authority of what is known as the "Old Testament," in which your boy God calls upon his adherents to slaughter men, women and children. Your mental gymnastics to attempt to claim that the text does not mean what it patently says, or that it is now somehow void in those sections the content of which is embarrassing to a religion which now bills itself as loving, are entertaining, but not convincing.

I know of at least one instance in which the Quran, referring to the faithful being attacked by infidels, authorizes the slaughter, with "extreme prejudice," of said putative enemies.

Don't accuse me of erecting a strawman because you have your own favorite interpretations, and choose to acknowledge the force and authority of some passages of scripture, but not others.
You have not erected the straw man. The clergy have. The Law of the OT is unyielding and severe for a reason. And I have nothing to say about the Quran
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 10:08 am
I am not parroting anything which the clergy have told me. You don't need a weatherman to tell you which way the wind is blowing. The vicious character of the injunctions of the Old Testament are self-evident, and no dancing on your part will change that fact.
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neologist
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 10:11 am
Setanta wrote:
I am not parroting anything which the clergy have told me. You don't need a weatherman to tell you which way the wind is blowing. The vicious character of the injunctions of the Old Testament are self-evident, and no dancing on your part will change that fact.
Vicious, perhaps. Severe, certainly. But for a reason. And it is that reason which makes the injunctons no longer valid.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 10:13 am
Your claim is based upon your personal exegesis, which is not either contextual nor obvious. Your claim that there is a "reason" to justify that viciousness does not alter the point i was making in responding to George. His was still an argumentum ad populum, and one which, if it were valid, were just as valid in authorizing inhumane enormities.
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neologist
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 10:25 am
Setanta wrote:
Your claim is based upon your personal exegesis, which is not either contextual nor obvious. Your claim that there is a "reason" to justify that viciousness does not alter the point i was making in responding to George. His was still an argumentum ad populum, and one which, if it were valid, were just as valid in authorizing inhumane enormities.
Sorry, I thought you lived in the midwest.

And I forgot to say good morning.
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georgeob1
 
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Reply Thu 31 May, 2007 10:45 am
Re: Why aren't they all just considered ridiculous?
Setanta wrote:

That there appears to be a human appetite for spiritualism in some form is not evidence that there is some transcendent meaning involved. Tens of millions of people, perhaps hundreds of millions of people, in North America want to believe that there is a high probability that they will win big in any one of the dozens of legal lotteries available to them. That does not alter that the odds against them winning are tens of millions to one--that does not alter that they are foolishly wasting their money if the basis to which one refers is mathematical probability.

You have made no case for any validity for religion, you have simply outlined the case for recognizing that people frequently feel better deluding themselves about their insignificance in the cosmos.


I haven't claimed to prove anything here. Instead I have offered reason to believe that the presumption that believers are necessarily crazy or ridiculous (assuming for the moment there are objective standards for both) is itself suspect.

None of us can be certain if there is a God creator, or, if one exists, what his nature might be. None of (as far as I know) has developed a satisfactory and complete understanding of the origin of our existence and that of the observable world that is independent of the variuous ones offered by religion. Noting the apparent contradictions and lack of foundation in religious explanations does not itself constitute the development of an alternative.

Applying contemporary standards of politically correct good behavior to the mostly metaphorical textual literature of religion, itself raises interesting questions about the implicit beliefs and assumptions of the one who does so.

Of course there are absurd religious beliefs, just as there are absurd non religious ones. Of course religion has been used directly, and sometimes merely as a cover, for the perpetration of horrible crimes, in truth probably motivated by greed, avarice, fear, and intolerance. The same can be said of many secular attempts to create 'just' societies.

Despite all this we are all faced with the need to make some sense of our lives and experience. Some here may claim to have done so, and to be secure in the knowledge that there may be no answers available to us. This may well be true. However, my experience so far in a life that has exposed me to many things, leads me to be skeptical. The cliche, "There are no atheists in a foxhole" is just that - a cliche. However there is an element of truth in it.
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