Sit her down, and have her just search .
Let her see it pop up for herself.
Google stupid words, then search through google images.
Let her see that it is everywhere no matter what you do.
You will have to be aggressive about it..
Meaning.. you will NEED TO make her sit down and do this herself.
It works.
Funny.. my own husband, for about 2 weeks thought that was what I was doing.
I was looking for places to post an add for my business. And i was looking specificaly in lesbian / gay communities.
Like I said, we use the same computer. No need for key loggers, we can see everything.
Then , I told him what I was looking for, and had him sit down to do the same searches using essentially the same key words.
He wasnt thinking I was cheating, or surfing porn, he just thought it strange that I was focusing on lesbians for a week
It solved the problem 100%
but, besides the action , the key thing for us was communication.
he SAID to me he felt wierd.
he ASKED me what was going on.
i TOLD him what I was doing
I EXPLAINED why
talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, and talk some more..
it works