stuh505 wrote:Bella Dea wrote:saramaye01 wrote:Thankfully he never has nor do i forsee him ever hitting me. so i'm not scared He stated that now that were married i should be asking him to so stuff and i'm just not that type of person.
thanks to all for your imput.
This is the beginning of an abusive relationship.
I don't think you know enough about the situation to determine that
Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Abusive relationships start with the partner issuing authority over the other. Starts with questioning and requests for detailed information on where they are going. Then, it progresses to posessivness over what the other person wears, says or who she sees. You can't see so and so because you always get in trouble with her. Following this are the insults and put downs to make the other feel like they aren't worth spit and to get them to comply because "no one else loves me".
From there it can progress to physical abuse.
An abusive relationship does not have to be physical to be abusive.
Any relationship that begins with one partner issuing authority over the other is never a good sign.