The only thing I can think of
is stupid. More drugs.
Love is better. Loving and respecting full out. I say that sincerely and after much thought.

I have enjoyed drugs.
Love and no drugs does win because you are so present. A part of each is dead with drugs. And someone always forgets one of the best parts of the evening.
Exercise til you hurt is a good drug. Lots of fun having such precision with muscles.
An good adrenaline high can replace drugs, well. Lots of ways to achieve that mutual adrenaline high.