Separate Vacations

Many psychologists believe that separate vacations is a road to divorce.

Many psychologists believe that separate vacations is a road to divorce. If you need a break from your spouse, there are much deeper issues. I would never think of going on a vacation without my husband and if I did, I would have to think about why.

You say many psychologists say separate vacations are the road to divorce?

What if MOST psychologists say it is not?

Anyway, what's wrong with having a vacation from each other? I didn't marry to be joined at the hip.

What? Is being married supposed to mean enjoying the exact same things in the exact same way 100% of the time?

I think someone unwilling to acknowledge needing separate time has a lot of fear about their relationship and the inability of it to remain sound by having your own wants and needs.

Chai wrote:

You say many psychologists say separate vacations are the road to divorce?

What if MOST psychologists say it is not?

Anyway, what's wrong with having a vacation from each other? I didn't marry to be joined at the hip.

What? Is being married supposed to mean enjoying the exact same things in the exact same way 100% of the time?

I think someone unwilling to acknowledge needing separate time has a lot of fear about their relationship and the inability of it to remain sound by having your own wants and needs.

You just had to take the bait, didn't cha?

Only kidding Chai. You're always ready to jump into the fray and that tickles me, is all.