That sounds like a bit more than an addiction to porn. Porn is a fantasy; actually contacting others about sexual liaisons is cheating, IMO.
my husband looks at porn as well, but when i asked him why, he told me....he said (and he is older than me by 13 years), he just needs a little help. we do not want to resort to viagra or any of that junk, so if it helps me in our sex life, i say so be it. now if it ever comes to where he won't make love to me and would rather look at his porn than make love to me, it will come to a stop rite then. i know my husband loves me, and i know who he is coming to bed with every nite. to me thats all that relly matters.
