Kimmy--
Welcome to A2K.
Quote:I don't have the desire to stray now, but do you think those feelings could change if things don't get better sexually?
Don't borrow trouble. Focus on solving the problem.
I could be reading things into your post that aren't there. I gather that you are unsatisfied sexually because of your husband's lack of staying power.
I also gather that you are concerned with his staying power--and his ego--and he is concerned with his staying power--and his ego.
He's getting attention from you--and you're unsatisfied sexually. You feel more than a little left out in bedroom satisfaction and marital concern?
In the past you've known men who could satisfy you in bed. You didn't choose to marry them because they didn't satisfy you out of bed and you are savvy enough to know there is more to a life together than bed sports.
Because of your experience, you figure that the problem isn't "your fault". Ok. Fine. Not-your-fault. BUT: Your lack of satisfaction is a problem the two of you share. He can't improve without feedback--and you certainly don't want to turn him loose to get feedback from a friendly floozy.
Life in bed isn't fair, sometimes. Life out-of-bed isn't fair, sometimes.
Bed problems can be solve. Worthless men can only be discarded. You've got a good guy.