squinney wrote:sozobe wrote:Seriously, squinney?
I'm not sure what I think yet about the issue as a whole, but the homosexuality/ bi-sexuality element is by far the least problematic, to me. Teenagers experiment, then settle down with someone they love -- doesn't matter one whit to me which gender my kid experiments with or who she falls in love with, so long as she's safe (in all senses -- protection + good judgement).
I'll be sure to check back with you in ten years.
I realize my college years are now 20 years behind me, but it never crossed my mind to experiment with females. I wasn't aware of anyone doing so with same sex just to check it out.
That it is now prevelant in our high schools is bothersome not because of a lack of tolerence, but because it is cavalier. There's no love. It's just thought of as fun, which is where the lack of self respect comes in.
IMO, Girls Gone Wild plays into that and makes it look like the norm.
I think you get this but to make it clear:
I'm all for sozlet, when she's older, making responsible choices.
It's just that the gender aspect of it is immaterial for me, and you seemed to be highlighting that specific aspect with this statementt:
Quote:Tolerance of homosexuality and bi-sexuality is one thing. Encouraging it is another.
There are a lot of ways that could've been phrased. Like, "tolerance of sexual promiscuity is one thing. Encouraging it is another."
I'd agree.
Or "Tolerance of girls humilating themselves is one thing. Encouraging it is another."
I'd also agree.
But I don't know what "encouraging" homosexuality and bi-sexuality in this context means. Don't kids see a whole lot of heterosexual grappling? Does that encourage heterosexuality? Again, if the point is narrower -- about promiscuity, irresponsibility, etc., I'm right there. But I don't see anything inherently wrong with homosexuality or bi-sexuality, and don't think the fact that it's shown is any more "encouraging" than the fact that heterosexuality is shown.
Anyway, why I asked "really?" is because that one piece seemed kind of out of character, and I didn't get what you meant. Maybe I misunderstood.
For the larger question, I think it would make sense to have some sort of rating system for commercials, and not show a commercial that is rated "higher" than the TV show it accompanies. For example, if Scrubs is rated TV-14 (I don't know the actual rating), and the GGW commercial is rated R, it couldn't be shown during that time slot (but could be shown during another time slot that has a show rated R or "higher").
But I know ratings are their own kettle of fish -- abitrary, etc.