Quote:Ms. Tillman's daughter, who is black, and her 25 classmates, 23 of whom are white, were confused.
I disagree that this was in any way appropriate. I think there is a difference between teaching historical and societal truths using age-appropriate and non-inflammatory materials and winging it with materials that express such hateful and actually violent sentiments.
The over-riding concern, which doesn't even seem to have been addressed, should have been for the comfort of the black children in that classroom. It's hard enough being the only one or two or three out of 26 everyday, without having all eyes turned on you to see what your reaction is when you go to school and see an emblem of your country turned into a message of hate against who you are. I'm sure it was embarrassing for the three black children (or maybe the little girl was the only black child and the other two "non-white" children were members of another minority group).
I think it showed a lack of empathy and understanding for that little girl within that classroom, and I'd be upset as a parent of any child in that classroom, that her feelings were not more carefully considered-no matter what my race.
This lesson is more appropriate for an honor's high school class where you have intelligent, sensitive, compassionate kids who are able to understand all the nuances of such a "work of art" - but again, if I were the teacher of such a class, and there was only one or two black students (which is often the case outside of inner-city schools in America), I'd approach them about their comfort with having such a lesson discussed in the class before I even thought about broaching it.
It takes a skilled, sensitive, experienced and aware teacher to lead such a discussion to any productive end. I know many teachers I wouldn't want to lead that discussion with my children, just as I know some whom I'd feel find about it.
I agree with the mother. A young, white woman has no idea what it means to be black, and even though she might have the best intentions in the world, I would not want to trust her to educate my black child about what it means to be black in our society. That is a job for her parents.
Having said that- if her apology was sincere- I don't think she should lose her job. Live and learn....