Is He Winding Me Up Or What?

To me, this is a red flag indicating that you have to up your standards.

Weed excursion, but don't forget about the prostitutes too.

No squinney, he didn't ask me to mind the dog. In fact, he probably decided to take the bleedin' dog instead of me. Bastard.

I don't know what the good news was Sozobe. Why on earth would he think I would want to tag along on that kind of excursion anyway?

Anyway I pretended not to be disappointed when he told me. I am an idiot.

(yes, forgot about the prostitutes)

What a crappy thing to do, to put a bug in your ear and then just not follow up on it. I think you should be straight up with him and tell him that it really disappointed you that he did that.

Yeah it is a crappy thing to do isn't it? I would never do that to someone. Feeling v sorry for myself.

Yes indeed, not only for someone you've been intimate with but I think it would be crappy for any friend to do that, male or female. That guy has explaining to do.

Ha! I find it so weird when people tell you they are going to ask you something in the future or tell you something in the future.

Why say a thing? Eh? Silly dude.

Next time he does it I'd brush him off. "Ah, cool, well, you can tell me when the time comes. Now about that weather today...."

On a related tangeant - what is truly awful is when folks say things like this to kids...bad habit of the mouth to get into. Hard to take what is said seriously.

p.s. Did he bring you back anything?

Laaaame! I'd be pissed.

No wait, you're British-- I mean I'd be mad.

No, wait, not crazy OR drunk, I'd be ticked. I have no idea if that means anything in UK parlance or not.

Not he didn't bring me jack **** back and I am mad about it but I don't even want to hear his explaination (not that any have been forthcoming) I don't even want to look at his face. I should have known better anyway.