@eoe,
Watched,
Rachel Getting Married, last night.
Overall, I enjoyed this movie--Fine acting, good direction, effective hand-held cinematography, interesting story, realistic feel. For a film with a lot of actors, and musicians, populating the screen, it managed to keep it's focus on the central family dynamics of the two sisters, Kym and Rachel, and their divorced parents, Paul and Abby. And the familial conflicts were compelling and managed to make somewhat timeworn territory seem fresh.
I did feel the wedding rehearsal dinner and wedding reception scenes were much too long and drawn out, and caused the film to drag too much, and the dishwasher loading scene could also have been shortened without losing it's purpose. These seemed like self-indulgent excesses on the part of both the director and screenwriter.
I would have liked more character revelation and details, at least about the central players, and
some character revelation about the important peripheral ones--Sidney, the bridegroom, and Carol, the step-mother, are little more than mute props during most of the film. And, while the multi-racial, multi-ethnic nature of the gathering is visually abundant, no note of this is actually made in the screenplay. Where did all this idealized harmony and cultural blending come from? How did it come about with no apparent friction? How many family weddings actually look (or musically sound) like this one?
The movie has a relaxed, rambling, realistic feel that generally worked well and allowed me to feel like a fly-on-the-wall at this family's weekend gathering. Although their old wounds and resentments resurface, as in life, nothing profound really changes or gets resolved in the end. But the actors did make me care about these people, and curious to know even more about them, even when the characters they played were decidedly unlikeable. That's no mean feat. Anne Hathaway, Rosemarie DeWitt, Bill Irwin, and Debra Winger were all outstanding.
I should add that the companion I watched this movie with
hated it and couldn't wait for it to end. So, for some, this might not be an easy film to get into.